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Ramadan, the fasting month, is an event of great importance to the Indonesian
and the world's Muslim community. Being one of the five pillars of Islam,
observance of the fasting month is the priority in the devout Muslim's life
during this month. Fasting involves a change in the daily routine of the
Muslim faithful and represents an expression of their deep belief in God.
Many Indonesians look forward to Ramadan as an opportunity to test
and develop their inner, spiritual selves. The fasting regimen is rigorous.
No eating, drinking or smoking is allowed after the first prayer in the
morning until the opening of the fast in the evening. Prayer times change
based on sunset and sunrise, so the exact timing is different every day.
The morning prayer usually comes around four-thirty. Before this time,
a Muslim family must rise and consume the last food or drink that they
will have for the next fourteen hours. The opening of the fast, or Buka
Puasa, occurs around 6 o'clock in the evening. At this time, all fasting
Muslims will break the fast by drinking, eating and attending prayers.
Business people often note a loss of work efficiency during Ramadan.
Secretaries may become forgetful. Drivers can be observed sleeping in
the car. Employees may often leave the office early and arrive for work
late. Lunch meetings are not scheduled and it may be difficult to contact
Bapak or government officials. An important question for foreign professionals
in Indonesia is: What is the proper behavior and attitude toward this
widespread religious observance?
I spoke with Bapak Sumartono Sumarsidik and we discussed the best
attitude for foreign professionals to take towards Ramadan and its effect
on business. Pak Martono is one of the most astute observers of Western
Indonesian relationships that I have encountered. He is, as you may be
able to tell from his name, from Java, and has worked in cross-cultural
work situations for all of his long and distinguished career.
Indonesians are not supposed to use the month of Ramadan as an excuse
to avoid work responsibilities. The importance of this fasting month is
to develop the inner self. The execution of normal work responsibilities
should not be affected noted Pak Martono. It is true that in Indonesia,
business is not affected as severely as it may be in other countries.
Restaurants and entertainment establishments may appear closed or have
reduced hours, but you do see people eating and drinking during the month,
especially after the first few days. He continued, Indonesians don't usually
impose their fasting on non-Muslims. Foreign businessmen should be able
to continue on as they normally would. However, a polite, tolerant respect
for those who are fasting is always appreciated.
Foreign professionals should realize that they are essentially guests
in a predominately Muslim country. The majority of the Indonesians that
they work with will be fasting. The most important thing is not to show
intolerance or disrespect to the concept of the fasting month. Food and
drink will probably not be set out in the office. At meetings, refreshments
may not be served. A foreigner should try to be discrete in the consumption
of food and drink. If possible, keep your tea and coffee in your office
and don't walk around or bring it into meetings. Feel free to go out to
lunch as normal, but don't invite a fasting Muslim to join you. Try to
be observant of those around you.
Realistically, because of the change in the schedules of peoples lives,
there is an effect on business. Although it shouldn't be used as an excuse
to reduce activity, employees are often tired because of disruptions in
their normal patterns of eating and sleeping. This often results in a
loss of efficiency if nothing else. While no one should say I can't do
that report or attend that meeting because I'm fasting, the lack of energy
and enthusiasm is often obvious to the foreign professional. One must
never say: Why don't you just eat something, then? or make comparisons
to the type of fasting found in other religions. This is a serious, religious
undertaking and the foreign professional needs to be tolerant and respectful
of this fact.
For devout Muslims in Indonesia, the month of Ramadan is a time to
face sacrifice, but along with that sacrifice, comes a sense of fulfillment.
During the fasting month, Muslims are prohibited from eating, drinking
or smoking from Subuh, the morning prayer at around four-thirty, until
the call to Magrib, the prayer just after six in the evening. Because
the stricture for the fast only goes until Magrib, Indonesians can look
forward to an evening of food, drink and socializing. There are additional
prayers and sermons in the mosques and a general up-beat atmosphere prevails.
After having fulfilled their religious duty for the day, devout Muslims
are allowed to enjoy that accomplishment and reflect on the meaning that
it has for their lives.
I would like to address the social obligations imposed on the devout
Muslim and foreign professional alike. For many reasons Buka Puasa, or
the Breaking of the Fast, is a social and business event. There is a switch
in emphasis that occurs during this month. Lunch meetings will no longer
be held and the invitation to the Breaking of the Fast becomes the main
social event of the day. This is conducted on several levels. For some,
it simply means that the family is all together and they may celebrate
their love and devotion. On another level, much business is conducted
and many relationships are reaffirmed by invitations to Buka Puasa gatherings.
Many organizations have events scheduled for the Breaking of the Fast.
Some Mosques, like Istiqal and Al-Azar have events every evening. Similarly,
most businesses or government offices will organize some special events
for employees, colleagues and clients. It is not unusual that a company
or office will extend an invitation for a Western colleague, and perhaps
his family, to attend one or more of these celebrations.
Knowing that such events are a good time to bridge the gap between
Indonesian and West culture, I asked my good friend and advisor Pak Martono
about the proper response toward such an invitation. He noted, If you
receive an invitation to a Buka Puasa event, treat it as a sign of respect
and acceptance. You must be careful in agreeing to or refusing such an
invitation. Either response will have meaning to the Bapak who extended
the invitation
If you or your family accept an invitation to a Buka Puasa, there
are several things that you should observe and be aware of. Primarily,
treat it as the honor that it is and not some sort of informal picnic
although you should be prepared to sit on the floor during dinner. Floor
seating is the traditional Indonesian method; it allows more people in
and avoids the necessity of setting up tables. There are probably two
different kinds of settings that you can expect -either a ceremony at
an office or a ceremony at a Mosque.
After the Breaking of the Fast with a sweet drink and a small snack,
those invited join in group prayer. Unless you are Muslim, you will not
be expected to join in to the communal prayer session in the Mosque or
Musholla. If this is the case, it is best that a foreigner stand or kneel
in the back, observing a respectful attitude. Should you be invited to
the main prayer area, perform whatever prayers are within you. Indonesia
is a tolerant country religiously, but there is an assumption that everyone
has a religion and prays to God. Regardless of personal beliefs, do nothing
to disturb this assumption.
Food will not be served in the main prayer area so everyone will move
to another area for dinner. Whether or not you were uncomfortable during
the prayers, now is the time to relax a bit. The Breaking of the Fast
is a time of fellowship. Remember all of the cultural rules that you have
learned about respecting face and status, but this is a time to enjoy.
You would not be invited unless you had a relationship with someone there.
If things seem unusual or even uncomfortable, keep in mind that this is
one of the seminal events in the Indonesian calendar. By your actions,
you have earned enough respect to be included in Buka Puasa. This is an
honor not to be taken lightly.
George B. Whitfield, III is a Technical Advisor with Executive
Orientation Services of Jakarta. EOS is a cross-cultural training company
specialising in the corporate cultural integration of foreign and Indonesian
management teams and staff. |